Politeness and Lack of It!

          
             Politeness and giving and receiving of compliments have become so rare, that when you give a compliment to anyone they automatically think that you want something from them. It's a simple compliment for example, "you look great today", "I really like your sense of humor", or "I love your idea!" Some people even take it as if your coming on to them. This is very sad because this is creating loneliness, isolating us to feel less for others. Everyone should appreciate each other a lot more, and notice the good deeds and efforts of friends and family. Give and accept compliments today and start making it into a habit and you will see just how much happiness and satisfaction it will bring!

           
                                                       

                                                            

  
      

 

 

 

  

 

 

 

 

Living Alone.

               Right now people are more lonely then ever and what has isolated all of us is Technology. We have unlimited resource of knowledge through the internet in the palms of our hands with cell phones, tablets, or laptops. Do you know one person who does not have a cellphone I don't think so. Before these technological advances everyone had to stop by the library and find information physically now it's instant through the world wide web. Our young generations are not learning appreciation since they never had to work hard for information. People do not utilize the internet to the fullest, you can find just about anything on google or youtube. We can learn so much from the web,  you cab learn how to cook, run a business, make jewelry, anything you can think of. The internet connects people instantly by email and facebook but we have become more alone then ever. People seek out enjoyment more than facing problems and fixing them and the internet is being used primarily for an escape for entertainment. People work then  go home to get on the laptop and turn on  the smart tv and forget about their world. This is why people are alone and they develop social and psychological problems and depression. We are not learning valuable life lessons from our elders and not really living our own life since we can watch someone else's on the internet or TV. We are in a depression millions of people are unemployed this is affecting all of us!  We are not proactively working to fix our problems as a society instead we are waiting for someone else or the "government" to fix it. When will people wake up and see that we are all having the same problems money, social issues, education and alot more due to technology. I hope not for the worst but I feel sometimes if people do not wake up something far more devastating has to happen to bring people together. We need to come together and face our problems together right now! This this my main purpose for this blog to wake people and help everyone come together with love and overcome our problems Together!

Judgement Devalues Everything!

Judging is the root that creates all arguments and separation between us. We are all one and we are all humans and we make mistakes So What!? Mistakes helps us learn what our actions eventually become. People judge you based on mistakes but they do not notice what you have learned from it. This is very common in our society especially due to television programming of various degrading shows that portray how to judge people and their mistakes in life. We have to make our own way of thinking and living you can't follow everything from television. Just look at animals and children they do not judge each other for what they have done they enjoy the present moment with joy. They Do Not think and complicate everything, they Live Life to the fullest every moment. We have to learn from children and learn that happiness is in every moment we just have to choose it.  People judge to understand the situation or someone, who they are but they are thinking with a very narrow perspective because of the Ego. The Ego in your mind stops you and makes you doubt yourself all the time. You have to control your thoughts filter them through positive and love only. Always observe people and the world around you. never Judge there is too much going on that can't be seen. :)

Live in Love, 

    Miss Bond